Wednesday 12 October 2016

GOAN PARADISE

                           GOAN PARADISE

Sun, sand, sea, surf, coconut trees, ethereal beauty and lots of fun…..Goa is synonymous with all of these. One thought of Goa is enough to bring cheer to people’s lives. What Goa does to people is absolutely magical! I’d say it brings out the best in people. You can be completely at ease in Goa, the land of love, the land of unlimited FUN…..

One trip to Goa and you are bound to fall in love with the place. It is like that beautiful woman whom you see once and can’t stop looking at again and again. Goa attracts you just like that woman. An affair with Goa is just inevitable.

As much as we love Goa, regular visits haven’t been possible, but this time, the opportunity came in the form of hubby’s seminar. Seminar of course isn’t any holiday but that was a wonderful excuse to plan a getaway to this wonderful place. We planned a pre and post seminar holiday keeping the seminar days in between. So it was like a warm up session (pre seminar), and a cool down session (post seminar).

Our first resort was at a location which no one actually even considers a location for a holiday. It was close to Bogmalo beach and the resort was called Stonewater Eco Resort. It was what you can truly call a hidden treasure. Placed very strategically with lush green tress all around and the vast sea hitting the shores right under the hillock; the beauty of this place is indescribable. It wasn’t that I just happened to stumble upon this property….it’s just that I had spent hours looking for the perfect place where I would like US to spend a few days…..and this place definitely didn’t disappoint me at all.
Tucked away from the noisy world, this place looked like it was a fairy tale destination.
We had booked a sea view chalet for ourselves and that provided a perfect view of the sea and the pool. Just imagine taking a dip in the pool with a view of the sea and the sun setting in the pink and orange hued horizon!!!
In terms of service and food, it wasn’t up to the mark though, but we weren’t concerned about that at all as we were totally enamored by the beauty of this place. If the monsoon was playing spoilsport elsewhere, here it was just adding to the beauty of the place.

The owner, Nisha and the manager Vanya, both were very forthcoming when it came to giving suggestions about places to visit.
Day 1- We checked in on Thursday and were told that there’s live music at Firefly shack in Benaulim. Since it was raining cats and dogs, we decided to hire a car, instead of our usual choice of a two wheeler in Goa. The rainy car drive from Bogmalo to Benaulim was a memorable one with some old Kishore da tracks playing in the mind.
Firefly was just the place to kick start our holiday with. A local guy Emmanuel was crooning some awesome tracks on the microphone and then a lot of people from the audience sang perfectly like rockstars while we swayed to the music!
Such was the experience that we felt, the long drive to Benaulim was totally worth it.
Must try at Firefly –Seradura (Goan Dessert)

Day 2- The day started with buffet spread which wasn’t quite appealing. However we ate a little and ventured for a tour to old Goa. First stop was St. Augustine’s Tower. This tower was built by the Portuguese between 1597-1602 and is now a ruin. However, the ruins present such a marvelous picture, that this place is a cameraman’s delight. A quick tour and numerous pictureslater we had to run for cover, as the mighty rain God started playing his tunes again.
We then headed for the Basilica of Bom Jesus, which is a world heritage site. The beauty of this place lies in its gold plated architecture and this place is famous for the fact that it holds the mortal remains of St. Francis, which is open to public view. What is surprising is that his body has not decayed over the years. This is a huge miracle and believers from all over the world flock this church to seek the blessings of St. Francis.
Opposite to this church is Se Cathedral, another noted monument.

Tired after all the sightseeing, we decided to hit the very famous Ritz Classic restaurant in Panjim for some authentic Goan cuisine. The Goan Fish thali here is delectable, which my hubby devoured in no time and me the poor vegetarian had to eat Veg Biryani which turned out to be pretty tasty as well! We ate to our heart’s content and then headed back to the resort to brace ourselves for a jazzy evening.
Must try at Ritz – Goan Fish thali

Our manager, Vanya, had briefed us that we must eat at Claudi’s before hitting Joet’s if we wanted some real good food. So the foodies that we are, Claudi’s was out first stop for the evening and I must say that the food here was worth every penny. Hubby relished some superb stuffed crabs and tandoori squid/calamari. Since vegetarians in Goa are sinners, I’ll skip my reviews about veg food and only focus on the seafood part. So coming back to the food, the seafood here was simply mind blowing! After filling our tummies, it was time for some music so we shot out to Joet’s.
Must try at Claudi’s – Stuffed crabs
Joet’s shack is at Bogmalo beach and they have live music every Friday. To our pleasant surprise, the same guy Emmanuel from Firefly was performing at Joet’s as well. This time round, hubby couldn’t control his singing urge and entertained us on the mic. Dancing, singing, eating and drinking……It was a fun filled evening, packed with entertainment. The highlight of the evening was, a nice long friendly conversation and dinner with yesteryears cricketer, Ajay Jadeja and his charming wife.
Must try at Joet’s – Sausage paratha(highly recommended by Ajay Jadeja who ordered it for us) 
                                                                  

Day 3 – This day was meant for relaxation after the previous late night, so we woke up comfortably and lazed around only to move out for lunch at John Seagull’s shack. This place was suggested by my bro-in-law (a BITS alumni), who was a regular at this shack during his BITS days. Turned out the food was yummy and this time the poor vegetarian also got a good option of noodles sizzler while hubby ate his seafood sizzler.
Must try at John Seagull – Noodles sizzler

Back at the resort, we decided to take a dip in the pool as the rains had finally spared us and we could dare to step inside the pool.  Swimming in the pool while eyeing the beauty of the sea is one unforgettable experience!

Dinner was planned at Martin’s corner, an upmarket restaurant, said to be Sachin Tendulkar’s favourite. We drove down to Betalbatim to try out food at this place but weren’t quite happy. The sausages didn’t look like sausages at all but the crew was adamant that they were sausages. We were still unconvinced and soon realized that the people on the next table too were being wrongly convinced by the crew about some dish.The live music too wasn’t appealing and so I wouldn’t rate the place as a must visit place. We soon left the place.

Day 4 – This was the day we had to check out from this heavenly resort and check into ZuriWhitesands resort for the seminar. Coincidently this was also the day when the sun shone brightly for the lone time during our entire stay. ZuriWhitesands isn’t one of the best 5 star properties of Goa, but it does have a lovely stream like pool, which opens up to a large pool. The large expansive lawns and the white sand beach right outside the resort are an asset to the place.


Day 5,6 and 7 – Hubby was occupied with the seminar all the 3 days, while I enjoyed some moments of solitude, reading through my novels. The highlight of the stay was early morning walks along the beach, that started in the dark and got over an hour later when the sun came up. Seeing the fisherman bringing back their boats after a night out at the sea, emptying their nets and sorting the fish, eagles hovering over the boats in search of a quick catch and dogs eyeing an opportunity to grab some fish….it was all spectacular!
These days also provided me an opportunity to interact with hubby’s shore staff and it was wonderful to hear them talk about various incidents, some of which made me feel mighty proud of hubby dear.
The gala night, which is held to celebrate the success of the Seminar, was a fun event; complete with music, dance and sea service awards. Hubby dear too received his sea service award which felt great!

Day 8 – With the seminar finally over, it was time to start the next leg of the vacation. Packing our bags and baggage, we drove towards North Goa’s Anjuna Beach where we had booked ourselves in a Portuguese boutique hotel.
On the way we stopped for lunch on the Kanyakumari-Panvel highway near BITS campus at a restaurant named Antique Mardol. This was our second visit to this restaurant after a gap of 5 years, as it’s the only place on Goa which offers
 Goan Veg Thali. I didn’t want to miss it for anything in the world. The food was yummy-liscious  and I lapped it up hungrily!
Must try at Antique Mardol – Goan Veg Thali/Goan Fish Thali
On reaching the hotel, we were taken aback.The expectations were too high and they didn’t fall in line when we were shown our room. It was in total contrast to our earlier resorts and we didn’t want to disappoint ourselves with a dull room. We intimated the manager about our discomfort and he was courteous enough to upgrade us to a far better room. That was the saving grace. We rested a while to prepare ourselves for a reunion with our lovely friends from Goa, in the evening.
Britto’s, it was, at BagaBeach…..the destination for our reunion. It was special as we were meeting our friends, Neeraj and Jyoti, after about 5 years. A lovely session of food n drinks followed, coupled with some nostalgic conversation and soul to soul talks.
We then parted with the promise of catching up again soon.
Must try at Britto’s – Prawn Curry Rice

Day 9- This day was earmarked for some sunning and tanning at the beach but the weather didn’t seem to favour us and it kept pouring. It wasn’t supposed to dampen our spirits….so we decided to checkout the famous joints at Anjuna.
First stop was Artjuna, a quaint café, offering some Mediterranean food. As we weren’t too hungry, we just hung around for a while, sipped a drink and left for Café Liliput. This place normally holds beach parties and so we were inquisitive to check it out. But blame it on the weather or the muddy seas, we weren’t enamored by the place at all. So we stayed, had a drink, ate some prawns and salad and then made up our mind to hit Curlie’s shack.
Curlie’s shack is a walk down a narrow lane after you have parked your car and you seem to wonder as to where you are heading, but once, the walk is over, you realize, there’s some huge space out there, ready to embrace its guests.
Curlie’s is a huge shack built in two levels and we went up straight to the first floor. The cool breeze of the sea, the splash of the waves hitting the rocks, the wooden structure and people enjoying themselves….all added to the charm of that place. The only drawback of the place was its unresponsive attendants. We did raise this concern with the manager, as however pleasant a place is, the smile of the person who serves you makes it even more pleasant. On the contrary, a frustrated attendant, ruins the entire experience. The manager was apologetic and assured us that it wouldn’t be repeated.
Must try at Curlie’s – Indian Fish Masala Fry

Sun was setting and we had clubbing on our mind, so it was time we left Curlie’s and freshened up for the night-out.
Sinq Club at Sinquerim Beach was the place we had on our minds. Party there starts at 10in the night and goes on till 3 in the morning.
The entry to the club was 1500/- per couple with unlimited drinks inside. It took a little while for the momentum to pick up but once started, there was no looking back. To my delight, it was Bollywood night and the DJ was superb in his song selection. Not single track was repeated entire night and it only got better than the last one.
The bartender was liberal with the drinks and made sure, the unlimited stays unlimited. Also he was quick to remember the drink you ordered first and would refill the same one without delay, whenever you approached him next. The thin crust pizza was also lip smacking!
This place provided us with an awesome clubbing experience after years!!!
Lots of dancing, eating and drinking later, the night, or rather morning, was wrapped up by playing a game of pool at the pool table.

Note – Look out for Sinq club vans on the roads. They hand out discount coupons worth INR 500/-, so if you have it, you just pay 1000/couple entry fee.

Day 10 – Tattoo Day…..this day had been specially reserved for our tattoos. Goa is the place where there is no dearth of tattoo parlors but identifying the right one is the key. Getting inked is not an easy task, as one wrong tattoo and you are stuck for life, unless you go through the pain of laser removal.
This time around, we chose RK’S Ink Exposure at Baga, after careful survey. A week prior to this, we had discussed our respective tattoos with the tattoo artist, Rakesh and he had assured us that we wouldn’t regret it.
Rakesh is a very confident artist, does his work meticulously and maintains hygiene. My tattoo took just about an hour and a half and I was quite happy with the results but before starting to work on hubby’s huge tattoo, we decided to take a lunch break at Fat Fish, Baga. As to tattoo was to be time consuming, we quickly ate some good food.
Must try at Fat Fish – Tandoori Prawns and Vegetable Xacuti
The tattoo’s design was quite detailed and it took about 6 hours with almost no breaks, to finish the tattoo beautifully. The artist as well hubby, both were completely exhausted after this tattoo making exercise. However, both of them were proud and satisfied at the result.
Since there was no time as well as energy left to explore some new places for food, we decided to eat at Crazy Crabs at Arpora, which was on our way back from Baga to Casa Anjuna hotel.
The ambience of the place is not worth mentioning, however, the pleasant staff and the low priced scrumptious food is definitely worth mentioning.
Must try at Crazy Crabs- Crab Xacuti, Mushroom Masala and special mention Tandoori Roti.

Day 11- The final day of our holiday. Time to go back. The heart was divided between wanting to go back and to stay there but real life was beckoning. It was time to bid adieu to this dreamland. Since the last day too had to be special, our friends invited us for a hearty South Indian breakfast at their place before flying to Delhi. The wonderful hosts that they are, they weren’t hassled about feeding us a lavish spread at 8 in the morning even though it was Jyoti’s birthday. As if that wasn’t enough, I was handed over a tiffin box with some delicious PuranPoli inside. The last day of the holiday was converted into a mini celebration.
Rejuvenated, refreshed, satiated and extremely happy about getting such a relaxing break, we left Goa, with the promise of coming back soon. Adios, Goa. Wish to be there soon again.






Thursday 23 June 2016

Hate commenting!

Yes, I know what I'm writing about will set many tongues wagging....not because people sincerely feel for an issue, but because they enjoy hate commenting.

So welcome to this world where hate comments have become a regular feature, thanks to people who don't bat an eye lid before writing anything nasty about another person. Mostly these will be about issues which do not even remotely concern them nevertheless they will comment. And why will they comment??? Now that's the question, I've been looking for this answer myself for the past many days.

Let us pick a few incidents from the recent past.....

A two year old is pulled into water by an alligator near Orlando's Disneyland Resort and subsequently dies. Now what would you do in such a situation when parents are grieving the death of their little one? My natural instinct would be to join the grieving parents and either offer my condolences or just let them deal with the grief on their own.
FLASH!!! Here comes the battering army.....butcher the parents... crucify them! How could they be so careless? How could the boy get pulled by the alligator in the presence of the father? What was the mother doing? The parents killed their own child!
Oh c'mon, I say.....do u even know the background of the family? Do you know the parents personally? Are you aware that they were careless or not? Were you present at the site of accident?
Then how come.....just how come....can you say anything that comes to your mouth....err not say but type with your hands....those very hands which should have shook while typing such negative comments. Par kisee ka kya jaata hai? It was their child, not anyone else's....why should they bother about how the parents feel!!!
Who cares to know if the parents were the doting ones? Who cares if the mother had given up her career aspirations to take care of her child? Who cares if the father tried hard to keep the alligator at bay when it was pulling the child? Hell.....no one does.Type....send....and you're done for the day. Whether your negative comment has scarred someone for life is none of your concerns....you got your share of sadistic pleasure, that's it!

Next in line is our RBI governor's exit. Raghuram Rajan, a wonderful economist, who planned some great strategies for the country. Now he resigns...gives subtle hints as to what lead to his resignation.....and people join him in solidarity understanding his woes. Nothing wrong with that. A person has full rights to take a decision and people can stand by him and appreciate the work done by him during his tenure as RBI Governor....but hey! hey! Here come the slammers.....Why should we let anyone just leave gracefully...we ought to trash that person...that's our birth right!
And if that was not enough, we gotta batter those too who appreciate his work....take for example, actor Soha Ali Khan who tweeted in Raghuram Rajan's support....boy!!!! .....people who don't even know her hit her with some real nasty comments. One even went to the extent of asking her is she even knows the E of Economics....Well well my boy! How would you know that she has graduated from the prestigious London School of Economics and worked as an investment banker before she started acting? Wouldn't it be much better to concentrate on your studies/work before questioning other people's education? But then again......isn't trolling the best form of entertainment these days!!!

And now moving on to the latest one.....the one which involves controversy's own child....our very own, Salman Khan....
During a press conference, Salman stated that the shooting of Sultan involved kushti in the ring and after the shoot, he felt like a raped woman as he could not even walk properly.
Now.....agreed....this is not the best of statements one can make but certainly not the worst.
He compared his pain to the pain of a raped woman meaning he very well understands the plight of a raped woman and the pain she undergoes.It does not in anyway mean that he mocked at any woman who'd undergone the most horrible torture...rape.
Coming back to the same issue again.....why should we spare him cause he used the word RAPE!
It really doesn't matter how many times during college we said that the teacher raped us (if she asked too many questions we didn't have an answer to) or we said, my friends raped me today (if they picked up some point and zestfully kept poking fun at us the entire evening) or we said, the boss raped me yaar ( if the boss bombarded us with too much work to handle).....but yes! We are the simpletons. We can say anything and get away with it but when it involves someone else, we will charge towards them like a mad bull...err....I used a similie....now will I  get trolled for this? You never know.

So while I contemplate why people have this sadistic approach, you all can just take a chill pill....if you like something...like it.....if you don't....ignore it.
Why does everything have to be either liked or hated....can't there be a middle path? Can't a certain person have his or her own views over something? When we don't know the person in question, personally, then shouldn't we refrain from making such negative comments?  Who knows why, in what situation and exactly what that person said?
Isliye....khud jiyo....aur jeeney do! GET A LIFE !!!

Ciao folks!

Thursday 31 March 2016

Values

                                                                     VALUES


Values....erghhhhh! Doesn't this sound like some vague concept in today's world?

It is not that I'm claiming to be someone who doesn't err on values ever, but basics! What about the absolute basic values that used to be the core of humanity not very long ago? Where have they vanished?

Taking an evening walk onto the walking track of my society, I came across a bunch of 14-15 year olds, frantically searching for what was probably their lost ball while playing a game of cricket. To my surprise, these children, well into their adolescence, were merrily trampling the plants underneath their feet. A flustered guard was telling them not to do so, but they were just not in a mood to listen.
Enraged by their act, I decided to confront them. Of course, I decided to maintain a cool demeanor and asked these children to stop damaging the plants and look for their lost ball in the morning, when the broad daylight would be of help to them. But remember.....the missing values.....while two of them continued with their stampede, two others giggled away at my statement. Infuriated, I had to accost them and tell them that :

1.  At their age, they must very well know that plants are living beings.
2. When their wisdom is failing, and the guard is telling them to stop, they must listen to him.
3. Failing in understanding both the above, when a lady is talking to them, they can at least listen to what she is saying.

At that moment I told them to go, but I could read their eyes very well which screamed and said "Oh Shut Up you insane woman!"

This incident highlights a few things:

1. No matter which school our children go to, their schooling is useless if they don't understand the difference between living and non living things.(in this case, plants)
2. They have probably never been taught to respect their elders even if the person does not belong to a high economic status. (in this case, the guard.)
3. Children will not do the right thing but instead mock at the person telling them to do the right thing. (in this case, me)

The incident disturbed me immensely and I kept harping on the thought as to why is this happening?
The act of these children actually puts up a question mark at the upbringing and schooling of the children.
Are we, as parents, so lost in our daily lives, that we forget to instill these basic values of love, respect and kindness in our children?
If so, we must pause, take a breath, analyse and evaluate the repercussions  this callousness will cause.

A friend of mine aptly put it when she said, "We must teach our children the values of Love, Respect, Honesty and Kindness. For the rest, the entire world is there."